So you won't be lost

I started this blog to express my opinion of certain topics that i thought were void, taboo and not talked about in the african american community. What this has become so far is a confessional of recent events in my sexual life.  I wanted to address this so that if you were here from the beginning and notice a change that you would not get lost in the transition. I thank everyone who comes, reads and follows my blog. I will continue to do my best in give you my opinion and the juice on me.

Now to the real post

I'm cheating. that's the my confession for the week. I've heard that women cheat because they feel ignored by their significant other. Men cheat beacuse they feel ignored in the bedroom. Well, i'm far from being ignored by my man. He's what black women who claim they can't find a man a good one. He's college educated, good looking, has a great job,(he doesn't like it but it pays the bills.) a car and treats me like a queen. The only thing i have a problem with is our sex life. We don't live together (but we're working on that) and we only have sex at lease once or twice a month. I know your saying that's no excuse but come on! My ex and i didn't live together and we had sex every week(at lease two times a day) In his car, his house, my house. You name we've done it. Although the MutherFu*ker cheated on me, i find myself longing for his dick( yes just his dick). He knew how to put it on a sister and he knew it too.That's why he cheated. I love my man very much and i have express my concerns about the lack of sex that we are having. He has taken my concerns into conceration and he's trying to make some changes but i need more. I guess that's why when i got my chance with the J (read this ) i took it. We have had several meetings since then and i don't feel bad about them. So why stay with my man if i did what i did? We've been together for so long and i feel like he's the one i would love to marry and have children with.(selfish,i know) You only have one life to live why live it unhappy. SO I want your opinion. Have you ever cheated? Would you?

P.S  Happy HNT!